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| first plain couple might be splitting up...
by Sophie-Louise on 6 November 2005 1:59am |
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| well thomas says i'm jealous, paranoid and can't take a joke so i think he'll be leaving me soon. it is a great shame and i'm very upset that i am those things and he doesn't love me anymore. i hope we can patch things up. i'm just so upset. i need your advice patty, lyn, linda, phyll, all you people who know us. he really doesn't want me anymore, i must be too boring, i'm quite a boring person and i knew it was too good to be true... :'( |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by Sophie-Louise on 6 November 2005 2:05am |
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sorry about plain in the title, meant P A L I N
that's the worst crime i could commit on here! :( |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by Blasi on 6 November 2005 4:30am |
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| People are who they are. If he doesn't appreciate you, that's his problem; find someone who does. |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by tucsonmike on 6 November 2005 5:15am |
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Don't know the original situation, but from what I've seen can only agree with Blasi.
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by purple on 6 November 2005 11:56am |
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*hugs*
I'm inclined to say the same as Blasi.
Maybe what you could do is to talk to him, like actually sit down together and sort out what's going between you two. It's only a suggestion but it might be best to get it all out in the open. |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by perfectbitch on 6 November 2005 2:54pm |
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| Oh! Sophie-Louise, if only we could choose who we fall in love with. I know nothing of your history but I recognise the anguish. In the end, you just have to learn to please yourself and not other people. Some men just know which buttons to push to make us feel inadequate. The problem is his - not yours. Good luck and love, Linz |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by risible-phyll on 6 November 2005 10:54pm |
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Aww Sophie..... ((((hug)))))....I'm so sorry you kids are going through this...... have you had the *loosing* Thomas for long or is a bolt out of the blue?.....sometimes we have gut wrenching tell tale signs that things aren't the same........
Whatever the future holds either as a couple or going your seperate ways, Sophie NEVER blame yourself entirely, you are a good person and not boring!!!!
Life isn't easy and sometimes we just grow apart or fall OUT of love, have you sat down and talked things over????or has this came out of an arguement????
we'll be here for you......
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Phyll |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by kazzzz on 7 November 2005 2:57am |
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So sorry to hear that Soph...all I can say is if you do part, treasure the time you had together and try to move on..don't be bitter it robs precious time from you :)
(((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))
and a creme egg ;)
Oh and how can ANYONE who likes parrots be boring??? ;) |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by Sophie-Louise on 7 November 2005 11:20pm |
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it's ok, i think i just over reacted, he said he was just angry because went over the top about him and a friend of mine... i thought they were getting on a little bit too much if you see what i mean... but we have spoken about it and it was all just silly on both sides. we went to sheffield today (lol the home of michael) to do some shopping which was good! i'm glad its going well again! i love him so much and i know he is the one for me forever, he's my first and my last. everyone argues sometimes, i spose we aren't human if we don't!
thankyou so much for your help and comments! i'm just happy to tell you it's alright now!
i know i'm not boring really kazzz i was just upset so i self pitty! lol |
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| Re: first plain couple might be splitting up...
by suzulu on 7 November 2005 11:26pm |
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| Glad to hear everything is OK now! Sue |
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